Tuesday, November 4, 2025

Marriage as a Mandatory Requirement in Jewish/Rabbinic Literature

  

1. Marriage becomes a mandatory requirement.

 

Entrance into marriage was a requirement for the man.a Even if he was widowed at an advanced age, he should not remain without a wife (see #3, n. r and t).

 

a. Mishnah Yebamot 6.6: The commandment concerning reproduction is given to the man, but not to the woman. R. Yohanan b. Beroqah (ca. 110) said, “In relation to both, Scripture says, ‘God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply” ’ (Gen 1:28) (so getting married is also a duty for women).” ‖ Jerusalem Yebamot 6.7D.13: R. Eleazar (ca. 270) has written in the name of R. Yose b. Zimra (ca. 220), “The scriptural basis of the Mishnaic teaching (which considers only the man to be obliged to reproduce) is Gen 1:28, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it וְכִבְשֻׁהָ.’ It is written וכבשה (which can also be read וְכִּבְּשָׁהּ), that is, he presses it down (namely the woman, like subigere or comprimere geminam). Who is in the habit of pressing down? The man and not the woman (so only the former is ordered to reproduce).” R. Jeremiah (ca. 320), R. Abbahu (ca. 300), and R. Isaac b. Marion (ca. 280) said in the name of R. Hanina (ca. 225), “The halakah is according to Yohanan b. Beroqah.” (According to Maimonides on m. Yebam. 6.6, the halakah is not according to R. Yohanan b. Beroqah.) Parallel passages are in b. Yebam. 65B and Gen. Rab. 8 (6D). ‖ A baraita in b. Pesaḥ. 113B: Seven are under the ban by heaven (= God): the one who has no wife … (see § Matt 10:10 C, middle). ‖ Babylonian Talmud Yebamot 63A: R. Eleazar (ca. 270) said, “Every man כל אדם  who has no wife is not a human being” (see § Matt 19:4). ‖ A baraita in b. Yebam. 63B: R. Eliezer (ca. 90) said, “He who is not concerned with procreation is like one who shed blood; see Gen 9:6, ‘He who sheds human blood will have his blood shed by men’ and Gen 9:7 follows with ‘Be fruitful and multiply.’ ” R. Jacob (I, ca. 120) said, “He is like one who diminishes the image (of God); see Gen 9:6, ‘God made man in his image’ and after this Gen 9:7 follows (as before).’ ”—This interpretation is also in Gen. Rab. 17 (11D) and Midr. Eccl. 9:9 (42B) without attribution. Once again, b. Yebam. 63B repeats it in the name of R. Eleazar b. Azariah (ca. 100); see t. Yebam. 8.4 (250). ‖ Tosefta Yebamot 8.4 (249): Man may not abstain from reproduction unless he has children. Grandchildren are like (their own) children. If one of them dies or if one of them is castrated, he may not abstain from reproduction. The man is not entitled to be without a woman, but the woman is entitled to be without a man. The man is not entitled to marry an infertile person or an old woman who is no longer able to procreate or a minor קְטַנָה (not yet 12 years and a day old) who is not yet suitable for giving birth. The woman is entitled to marry even a man who has been castrated. The man is not entitled to drink the cup of infertility in order not to give birth, but the woman is entitled not to give birth (because the commandment of reproduction does not apply to her). R. Judah (ca. 150) said, “Whoever castrates a man commits a crime. Whoever makes a woman infertile is exempt.” ‖ Babylonian Talmud Yebamot 62B: R. Tanḥum b. Hanilai (ca. 280, thus it reads instead of “R. Tanḥum said that Hanilai said”) said, “Every person (changed by censorship to ‘every Jew’) who has no wife remains without joy (see Deut 14:26), without blessing (see Ezek 44:30), without good (see Gen 2:18).” In the west (= Palestine), they say, “Without knowledge of the Torah (see Job 6:13, without an [enclosing] wall [see Jer 31:22]).” Rabba b. Ulla (ca. 300) said, “Without peace (see Job 5:24).”—Similarly in Gen. Rab. 17 (11C) in the name of R. Jacob (ca. 170), of R. Joshua b. Levi (ca. 250), and of R. Levi (ca. 300). ‖ When Ben Azzai (ca. 110) remained unmarried, he received a harsh rebuke (see t. Yebam. 8.4 [250] at § Matt 19:12 C;). See also b. Ketub. 63A; y. Soṭah 1.16C.54; b. Soṭah 4B; Num. Rab. 9 (152A); and the Tosafists at Ketub. 63A ברתיה. ‖ Further evidence at b. Qidd. 29B and a baraita in b. Yebam. 63B. (Hermann L. Strack and Paul Billerbeck, A Commentary on the New Testament from the Talmud and Midrash, ed. Jacob N. Cerone, 4 vols. [trans. Andrew Bowden and Joseph Longarino; Bellingham, Wash.: Lexham Press, 2022], 2:432-33)

 

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